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YOU were that person, that Phillip, to someone else that day. You with your phone and instinctually generous understanding that others needed to hear their loved ones' voices before they took one more step.

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Dec 3, 2021Liked by Amber Naslund

Man, I really hope when it’s needed, I can be Philip for someone. Thanks for giving him to us.

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Fuck, I am glad you are safe and glad for the Phillips of the world. Wiping my eyes now and carrying on.

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Crying now, in a Panera, where I'm reading this, because Holy Shit that was intense. I'm so glad you found your Phillip when you needed him.

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Dec 3, 2021Liked by Amber Naslund

1) holy shit

2) beautiful story telling

3) sav blanc AND a manhattan? Girl….

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Dec 3, 2021Liked by Amber Naslund

My thanks to Philip and how he was clearly what and who you needed after such a harrowing experience. As someone who took a bullet protecting my Mom from my asshole stepfather I can tell the recovery process of such a seminal, traumatic event takes place every day but it never leaves you.

Amber, you’re safe. Perfect words. And may you continue to always be safe at home and when you travel.

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Dec 3, 2021Liked by Amber Naslund

Wiping my eyes, and thanking my God again that you're still alive to tell this tale. Let's all be a Phillip when needed.

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Dec 3, 2021Liked by Amber Naslund

Both terrifying and heartwarming. Crying abt the terror and Philip all at once. Thank you for sharing your experience.

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I am so glad you found Philip that day. And I'm so glad you're safe. I'm sure this was really difficult to write, and to relive in the telling - I'm grateful.

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There's nothing that I can say other than I'm so glad you and others are safe, and that I so wish the laws around guns could change.

What you experienced was horrific, and I hope you never experience it again.

May we all be like Phillip for you, and be like you for those that didn't have their phones with them.

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Oh my gosh, Amber. How terrifying. This really struck a chord with me today, as a community not too far from where I live just experienced a terrible shooting at a high school that killed four students and injured several others. My faith in humanity has certainly been tested this week. But I take solace in knowing there are Philips in this world. I’m so glad the universe sent him to you that day. And I’m glad you’re safe. ❤️

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Human connection is underrated. Had only one eerie airport experience at an airport. It was at LAX sometime in the year after 9/11. The airport workers were yelling, "CODE BRAVO!" They were making us stand frozen where we were, no talking, no moving. Then it stopped and we all went on about our travels. No reason given. No info.

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